The temptation to not choose a verse from Sūrah Yūsuf was actually easier than you might have thought, despite my brain juices exploding on virtually every word
recited. There is such magic in every sentence in this Sūrah, that it’s quite insane. Seriously. But so many scholars have given wonderful access to this Sūrah with courses and lectures in English, that there’s no point me adding my own different thoughts in 6500 pages is there? No, thought not.
The twelfth juz’ of the Qur’ān is interesting due to the theme of “stories” being so prominent even though it probably wasn’t meant to be like that. Remember, it’s not 100% accurate to say (the subtly different) “the twelfth juz’ focuses on stories” because:
(a) the division of the Qur’ān into thirty chapters/juz’ was done after the Prophet (s) so anything that happens therein is not “intended” as such, rather the division is for ease of reading and memorising and so we can’t claim amazing things about each juz’ when there’s no evidence from Allah and His Messenger (s), and
(b) there are actually other chapters that have more stories in them than the twelfth chapter
But anyway, this chapter has Sūrah Yūsuf in it which Allah jalla wa ‘alā calls “the best of stories” and He ‘azza wa jall also says, “We are going to narrate (this excellent story) to you” and He jalla sha’nahu also says at the end of the Sūrah, “There is a lesson in the stories of such people for those who understand.”
So if I was being logical I’d reflect on this story. But me being random, I’m going to tell you a story from Sūrah Hūd instead lol.
What was on my mind throughout the entire twelfth chapter is just how mighty people – from them Prophets and Sahābah – who live on another plane of piety and action compared to us masakeen, are so often afflicted by trials, and from these trails are sexual temptations from sometimes evil and devious women and other times, more naive women who have just made a mistake, and indeed other times, women who have been tempted by the man himself. Often, as in the case of Sayyidina Yūsuf (‘alayhis-salām) the temptation was dealt with one-time, smashed right out of the park. Other times, no such success.
Now, because it’s the twelfth night just gone, and me being a Shakespearean romantic, I wanted to incorporate some of that comedy romance of his famous “Twelfth Night” into my reflection today with my *own* funny and “romantic” story, told in anything but Shakespearean fashion, rather AE ghetto style so be warned.
To be honest the story is only funny from where we’re sitting, even if it wasn’t for the storyteller. And actually it’s not romantic either, because it’s haram. It’s only romantic when it happens *within* a marriage and not outside it, but anyway if you want the full tafsir of this verse then you’re going to have come to my Fiqh of Salāh class and I’ll even act it out for you as an added bonus.
So there’s this Sahābi, and his name is Abu’l-Yusr Ka‘b b. Aslami (and some ‘Ulemā said Abu’l-Yasar), may Allah jalla wa ‘alā be pleased with him. Now just before you think this is some random minor bit-part player, you should know that he was from the early Ansār in Madīnah, that he was there at the second pledge of al-‘Aqabah, that he was there by the side of the Prophet (s) at the battle of Badr, and then at the side of ‘Ali (r) in the battle of Siffīn – just in case you thought he was some random minor bit-part player. Just in case ya’ni.
So one day, he’s chilling in one of the orchards of Madīnah and he comes across this girl – and this girl be *mighty* fine by all standards bismillahi ma sha Allah – who is selling dates. Now, man-sees-mighty-fine-girl-whilst-alone-in-a-romantic-setting is a sure-fire formula for trouble. And a dodgy chat-up line. So here goes.
“Hey, I’ve got dates in my house that are *way* better than these. Let me show you!” he said to the naive young girl. And yes, that really is what he said.
Anyway, she entered his house nearby with him and one thing led to another. And *he* kissed her. No more. No less. It was “just” a kiss, but one kiss far too harām. Or many. Whatever.
He immediately came to his senses and as the woman legged it, he was now grief-stricken – how could he possibly come back from such a slip-up? This was a disaster. And for someone of *his* status?! In desperate need of help, he thought of the one man who was soft, gentle and merciful enough to possibly understand his predicament: Sayyidina Abu Bakr (r). Once he found him and explained what happened, he got a wonderful response from Abu Bakr (r) who said, “Keep this mistake to yourself, make repentance to Allah, and don’t tell anyone about it!”
Now normally any one of us on our fatwa-shopping trips having heard all the “extreme” answers previously to such a problem and then suddenly coming across such a great fatwa and solution that *we* feel better about it (sigh), would have just bitten the hands off that Mufti and taken it there and then and khalas. Job done.
It’s a good thing though that the Sahābah don’t believe in fatwa-shopping for their own desires. They fatwa-shop for their Akhirah instead, fatwa-shop for the most correct and authentic position, especially if its against their own desires and interests. And Abu’l-Yusr just didn’t feel content that he could get away with his sin so easily and lightly. So he thought to himself, I need to go hardcore this time. I need to go to that guy who’s gonna slap me down in a way Abu Bakr might not. Yep, so that’d be ‘Umar b. al-Khattāb then.
So he goes to Sayyidina ‘Umar (r) and tells him the story to which he replies, “Keep this mistake to yourself, make repentance to Allah, and don’t tell anyone about it!” So the same advice as Abu Bakr then. And we’ve done Sayyidina ‘Umar an injustice again by just writing him off as some hard-man without a heart or without knowledge. Allahu Akbar.
But Abu’l-Yusr *still* wasn’t satisfied with what he was hearing. He couldn’t handle the guilt. He couldn’t just “get away with it” like this. So he went for ultimate justice i.e. to the ruler that is Sayyidina Muhammad (s). He approached the Prophet (s) who was sitting with some of the Sahābah and told him the full story. And to his utter dismay, the Prophet (s) went silent. And remained silent.
Abu’l-Yusr tells us as the story teller that he then realised he was going to be from the People of the Fire, and not just that but that he would never be forgiven again. He trudged off heart-broken. Suddenly, one of the Companions called him back to the Prophet (s) who looked at him and recited:
“Keep up the prayer at both ends of the day, and during parts of the night, for the good things drive the bad away – this is a reminder for those who remember Allah often.” (11:114)
Abu’l-Yusr didn’t quite get it. One moment he’s in the throes of despair. The next moment he’s being given the chance of a lifetime. You mean to say that for my level of sin because I didn’t take it any further, I’m still able to wipe my slate clean by praying the next prayer and khalas, it erases my mistakes before it?! The Prophet (s) said yes.
My man was delighted. And off he goes. On another planet. But all those who remained with the Prophet (s) were amazed. All of them were thinking the same thing but only one of them – Mu’ādh b. Jabal – decided to ask the Prophet (s):
“Ya Rasulullah, was this concession for him alone?”
And in perhaps one of the greatest responses of all time that history will bear witness to, the Prophet (s) replied:
“No. Rather, this will be for my entire Ummah.”
=)
Amazing amazing amazing. That’s the only way you can sum up this āyah and this story. Allah jalla wa ‘alā has told us to establish the prayer during the day and the night, and that by it, between each and every prayer, you’ll erase all the minor sins in-between.
And then He ends the verse with a very important statement: that such a reminder is really only for those who *benefit* from reminders. See there are many folks who are reminded all the time, but then they continue sinning. They think it’s all a big joke and a big game. But then there are others who are always living in the remembrance of Allah but sometimes they might lapse. For these folks, a reminder is exactly what it should be: a jolt to put you back on the straight path immediately. And it is these people who benefit most, like Abu’l-Yusr benefitted so much from this reminder of Allah jalla wa ‘alā.
Abu’l-Yusr is very interesting in that he was of the last Badari Companions to pass away meaning that he lived a quite long time after the Prophet (s) and should have been teaching many of the Tābi’īn and narrating hundreds of hadīth. But the fact is that he narrated very few hadīth, so few that perhaps you can count them on one hand. But one of his most eye-opening and telling hadīth that might be him showing gratitude for someone who lightened his burden on a day that he thought it was all lost, was when he narrated on the authority of the Prophet (s) when he said, “Whoever would love to be shaded by Allah in His blessed shade, then let him make it easy upon the going through difficulty, or just cancel the debt that he owes to you.” (Ibn Mājah, sahīh)
And Subhanallah, Abu’l-Yusr took to the prayer in such a way after this story above that you might even say he became an expert in its inner secrets and realities. And you can imagine just how immersed he must have become in his prayer, which led him to narrate on the authority of the Prophet (s) when he said, “There are some of you who pray the prayer completely, and others from you who only achieve half of it, and some a third, and some a quarter and so on until some only get a tenth out of it.” (Nasā‘i, hasan)
This last narration is about as hardcore raw as they come. How good is *your* prayer? How present of heart and mind are *you* when you stand before Allah in these Tarāwīh prayers? Are you taking all the measures we advised before to ensure that you’re benefitting as you should be? And what of your obligatory prayers?!
So why did I even mention this story as my reflection? Well, because I think that there are many Muslims out there who have a “holier than thou” attitude to their fellow brothers and sisters when they slip up, and they think to be harsh and strict is the only option all the time, when in reality we have to be realistic and understand the situations of different people at different times, whilst of course not condoning any sin at any time even the minor ones (which, surprisingly perhaps to many of you, kissing a stranger and not going further than that, is classified as).
Please note that the story of Abu’l-Yusr in the reason for the revelation of this ayah in Sūrah Hūd is taken from a number of sahīh and hasan hadīth that have been narrated in varying detail by Imam Muslim, al-Tirmidhi, al-Nasā‘i, Abu Dāwūd, Ibn Mājah, al-Tayālisi, al-Tabari in his tafsīr and Ibn Abi Hātim in *his* tafsīr.
Anyway, I wrote on this same subject or idea in Islam whilst covering a completely different hadīth and incident which you might enjoy perusing. It was from a while back and you can read it below if you wish:
http://alternativeentertainment.wordpress.com/2008/10/10/was-there-not-amongst-you-even-a-single-merciful-man/